Sinet Chan of Cambodia shared her lived experience in a Cambodian orphanage, where she was placed when she was 10 years old after her parents died of AIDS in a presentation, about 7 minutes, that was given as a part of the “Beyond Institutional Care: Rethinking How We Care for Vulnerable Children” conference addressing the issue of care reform.

While at the orphanage, she was “badly neglected.” The orphanage was set up to attract foreign volunteers and donations, but the children rarely benefitted from this – children were denied food, medical care and education. She and other children were forced to do manual labor, and she and other children were regularly raped.

Sinet Chan’s own words are so powerful:

During this time, we had many volunteers and donors coming and going. We would always entertain them, singing them a song, and playing games with them, to encourage them to donate money… the volunteers were nice people trying to help us, but now I realize it was a form of exploitation: using children to generate funding.”

All the other children in the orphanage – they all had parents who were alive and they missed their families… all the coming and going of the volunteers and visitors then compounded our feelings of loss and abandonment. The love and affection we feel from the visitor initially feels nice. Some visitors and volunteers would come for one day, some for a few weeks, and some for six months or more. It was always very traumatic when it was coming time for them to leave. We would be very (unintelligible) and cry a lot. I think it is a trigger memory of the loss and separation we have all suffered already. Having adults coming in and out of our lives feels like we were constantly being abandoned. They would always say they were coming back but, they never come back.

I think the uncomfortable truth behind the reason why white people feel like they need to participate in voluntourism is they have a white savior complex. The white savior complex is caused by the unconscious belief in the incompetence of the people they are trying to help. That belief justifies why they feel they must come and do it for us, like building our house, digging our wells, saving our children…

So, in order to combat voluntourism white people must examine their unconscious bias and learn how to be a white ally instead of a white savior.

You can hear her entire presentation on YouTube:

Also see:

• Not-Good Reasons to Volunteer Abroad
• More Than Me scandal in Liberia: a lesson to all who “just want to help”
• Poverty porn, survivor porn, inspiration porn
• Provocative campaigns against voluntourism
• More: systemic racism in volunteer engagement (white supremacy in domestic volunteering programs)
• Isn’t my good heart & desire enough to help abroad?
• Vanity Volunteering: all about the volunteer
• In defense of skills over passion
• Want to work internationally? Get involved locally.
• Is it really *impossible* to break into humanitarian work?
• Volunteers themselves speaking out about voluntourism
• J.K. Rowling speaks out against orphan tourism
• Medical Voluntourism Can Cause Serious Harm
• The harm of orphanage voluntourism (& wildlife voluntourism as well)
• Ideas for Creating Your Own Large-Scale Volunteering Activity