{"id":192,"date":"2012-10-01T19:09:00","date_gmt":"2012-10-01T19:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coyoteblog.posterous.com\/chat-with-me-on-twitter-oct-2"},"modified":"2017-05-16T19:19:34","modified_gmt":"2017-05-17T02:19:34","slug":"chat-with-me-on-twitter-oct-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coyotecommunications.com\/coyoteblog\/2012\/10\/chat-with-me-on-twitter-oct-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Chat with me on Twitter Oct. 2!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/coyotecommunications.com\/coyoteblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/socialcohesion.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1765\" src=\"https:\/\/coyotecommunications.com\/coyoteblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/socialcohesion-300x256.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coyotecommunications.com\/coyoteblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/socialcohesion-300x256.jpg 300w, https:\/\/coyotecommunications.com\/coyoteblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/socialcohesion.jpg 371w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>On Tuesday, Oct. 2, from 1-2 p.m. New York City time (10 a.m. Oregon time), I&#8217;ll be leading the <a class=\"twitter-hashtag pretty-link\" title=\"#commbuild\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/search\/?src=hash&amp;q=%23commbuild\"><strong>#<\/strong><strong><strong>commbuild<\/strong><\/strong><\/a> tweetchat on Twitter.<\/p>\n<p>The <a class=\"twitter-hashtag pretty-link\" title=\"#commbuild\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/search\/?src=hash&amp;q=%23commbuild\"><strong>#<\/strong><strong><strong>commbuild<\/strong><\/strong><\/a> tweetchat is focused on building and sustaining online communities for nonprofits, charities, schools, government programs and other mission-based initiatives, though some corporate folks frequently show up and share.<\/p>\n<p>The focus of the chat tomorrow will be on <strong>dealing with conflict among members of an online community.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is a subject near and dear to my heart. I addressed it in this web page, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.coyotecommunications.com\/outreach\/critics.html\">Handling Online Criticism<\/a>, which recently got quite a few mentions on Twitter. Just as criticism of an organization is inevitable on an online community, so is conflict among members. There&#8217;s no way to avoid it, but there are ways to address conflict that can help an organization maintain a reputation for being transparent and responsive, but without allowing someone to dominate a conversation and drown out others. How an organization handles online conflict speaks volumes about that organization, for weeks, months, and maybe even years to come.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Participating in the tweetchat is simple<\/strong>: you log into <a href=\"http:\/\/www.twitter.com\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter<\/a>, and then you click on the <a class=\"twitter-hashtag pretty-link\" title=\"#commbuild\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/search\/?src=hash&amp;q=%23commbuild\"><strong>#<\/strong><strong><strong>commbuild<\/strong><\/strong><\/a> link or do a search on the term #commbuild on Twitter. All messages with the #commbuild tag will appear. Keep reloading the tweets and you will see all new messages. To respond, just choose a message and click on &#8220;Reply&#8221;. Be sure to put the tag #commbuild in your message, however, so everyone else can see it too!<\/p>\n<p>The questions I&#8217;m going to be asking on this Tweetchat (subject to change!):<\/p>\n<p><em>Q1: Is conflict in an online community avoidable?<br \/>\nQ2: Is conflict on an online community ever healthy? Examples?<br \/>\nQ3: Have YOU ever been an instigator or participant in a lively conflict on an online community?<br \/>\nQ4: Do you include info about conflicts that happen on your community in staff meetings, or to your supervisor? Why\/why not?<br \/>\nQ5: Do you have written rules on how to deal with conflict on your online community?<br \/>\nQ6: How long do you let conflict\/debate go on on your online community?<br \/>\nQ7: Have you ever said no to calls by others to ban a member? Why?<br \/>\nQ8: When is it time to ask for a debate to stop?<br \/>\nQ9: Other tips for dealing with conflict online?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And regarding Q3: yes, I have been a participant in MANY lively conflicts in various online communities. Some of the experiences have actually been really gratifying: a problem that several people were experiencing got resolved, or minds got changed (this happened a few times in debates regarding virtual volunteering back in the 1990s). Some experiences have not been positive: I&#8217;ve lost respect for organizations and individuals who I felt were wanting to shut down debates because they didn&#8217;t like the opinions being expressed.<\/p>\n<p>In addition to this being a terrific learning experience regarding how to handle conflict on an online community, it&#8217;s also a great learning experience if you are new to Twitter or to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.coyotecommunications.com\/culture\/microblog.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">tweetchats<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>More about the <a href=\"http:\/\/amysampleward.org\/monthly-chats\/\">#commbuild tweetchat events<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>POSTSCRIPT: <a href=\"http:\/\/storify.com\/jcravens42\/oct-2-commbuild-tweetchat-practice\" target=\"_blank\">Archive of this tweetchat<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On Tuesday, Oct. 2, from 1-2 p.m. New York City time (10 a.m. Oregon time), I&#8217;ll be leading the #commbuild tweetchat on Twitter. 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